This or that

Which is worse?

Someone you don’t know accuse you of lying and you get uptight and fought back because you need to uphold your integrity and you are a born fighter.

Or

Someone you love, treating you bad in various occasions and you have fought in the past but you finally felt that fighting is no longer required because you are slowing losing your feelings about it anymore as you are so deeply wounded. Therefore you leave your affairs to Allah and may HE strengthen your heart to face the coming circumstances. 

To avoid confrontations, weak people use the term don’t bring up the past. They are selling Allah’s verses for a small price. To make the other party feel that they have done something that will displease Allah.

But they forget the verse

Whether you conceal what is in your hearts or reveal it, Allah will know it. He knows what is in the heavens and what is in the earth. Allah is powerful over everything.

Time will tell. Hearts may change.

Happy Birthday

To my beautiful daughter….Happy 17th Birthday.

When we chose your name, it was with a purpose. Be like “Fatimah is to Muhammad saw.” and to the other muslim community. Success is when you give back to those in need.

You have gone through a tough learning process with me as mom but my concern and doa is that you are always protected from the chatisement of hellfire.

I love you and I pray that Al Muhaymin will protect you from evils of this dunya.

Remember Allah at all times with zikrullah and prostrate only to HIM.